Today was a day where progress was shown. Yesterday was a
very difficult day for the team and me. We witnessed the worst starvation and
poorest districts I’ve ever seen in my life. I don’t understand why Haiti is
this way. I’ve had trouble thinking about how it could get this bad and why we
can’t permanently change the country overnight. I’ve fanaticized about having
super powers so I could lift the entire county up and carefully place every
single structure, man woman and child down on the ground in a new paradise. But
I can’t, no one can and I now understand the reality of true hardship… Hardship
is not enough. Survival! Real survival. This is not a movie, not a bad day at
work, not the type of difficulties most of us go through because we can’t afford
what we think we need. This is true survival and it tore me apart yesterday.
Yesterday my word of the day was disappointment. It was the only thing I could
think of because I couldn’t (still can’t) understand how a place full of so
many people can be such a hard and miserable place to live. However, today my
word of the day is progress.
Today I
traveled with part of my group to Teen Challenge, an organization from
Minnesota that expanded its efforts to Haiti. For those that are not aware,
Teen Challenge runs a program that helps people conquer alcohol and drug
addiction. In Haiti they do the same but also put a great emphasis on helping
the next generation break the generational curse. It was explained to us that in
addition to drugs and alcohol an extremely significant aspect of this country’s
troubles are rooted in broken homes. It is a normal way of life for men to have
multiple children with multiple women and then never take responsibility of
those children. It’s been going on for generations and seems to be the rule,
not the exception. Most young men in this country don’t care about family,
don’t care about morals and think the only way to break out of poverty is to do
it immorally. To rob, cheat and steal is the fastest and easiest way to earn a
buck. Many do all of these through the drug trade and become dealers, users, or
both; and on top of that don’t respect a family life that could save their
children and guide them in a moral direction. It’s one of those “I saw my dad
do it so I can too” type of scenarios. In order to break this generational
curse this next generation of young men needs to understand that you can live
with integrity, moral guidelines and still make it out of poverty. It may not
be the easiest way but it is the correct way.
Teen
Challenge educates these men how to live morally through teachings of the
bible. This two-year program also provides education for specific trades in
mechanics, computers and science etc. When they complete it, they will have
marketable skills in an extremely poor job market. They assist the men in
building personal relationships with business owners so they become next on the
hiring block once a job position opens. They also graduate respecting the
importance of raising their own children so their sons and daughters grow up
with a solid moral foundation built on integrity. What is better, getting out
of poverty fast with evil, or a little slower the right way?
I didn’t
get the story of all the men I met today but I can say with my own integrity
attached that the ones I did meet are good men. They have a chance for a future
and if they can stay on track and live the moral life that the bible teaches
this generational curse will eventually be broken.
The progress I witnessed today was
unexpected and amazing. I now know not all of Haiti is broken. Healing Haiti
and Teen Challenge have so many years of hard work ahead of them but I can at
least fall asleep tonight knowing that progress is indeed being made.
Dustin Imholte
I am so proud of the growth you are showing Dusty, I love you. GiGi
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